June 26, 2008 at 3:17 pm (All Blogs, All Personals)
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I met a woman recently who was convinced that her failing marriage was entirely the fault of the woman that her ex-husband cheated with and remarried. She wished and prayed daily for nothing more than an eternal life of much damnation for this woman.
I don’t believe she’s succeeded.
I tried with much effort to feel her pain and empathize. I tried to make her see some reason and focus on her growing children and their future. I tried to convince her to save her prayers for useful matter and turn her devotion back to God. I tried to ask her to leave her ex-husband and this woman in God’s capable hands and trust God’s will.
I don’t believe I succeeded.
Loba
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June 25, 2008 at 3:07 pm (All Blogs, All Personals)
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I have come to see how quickly one can change. How quickly evil can seep into people. It’s all a matter of habit. I strongly believe that.
I have always been fond of saying how we are all creatures of habit and I firmly believe it to this day. Habits, good or bad, define us. They define our quality of life, character, ethics and foundation of beliefs.
Unfortunately many bad actions, though they may seem insignificant at the time, if repeated will very likely develop into long-term habits. Such habits can include drinking, smoking, using violence, gossiping, judging, embracing sheer arrogance or spreading ignorance at worst.
I feel truly blessed to be able to at least detect this and to try and sometimes be able to stop the growth of such mold wherever possible. I just hope others do too.
Loba
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April 16, 2008 at 10:06 pm (All Blogs, All Personals)
Tags: faith, God, Immortality, life, loba blogs, mortalility, random, thoughts, writing
What if we became immortal?
Would we cherish life more?
Would we sleep through life more?
Would we take life for granted more?
Would we help others or help ourselves more?
Would we consider ourselves blessed or superior more?
What if we became mortal again?
Would we cherish life more?
Would we sleep through life more?
Would we take life for granted more?
Would we help others or help ourselves more?
Would we consider ourselves blessed or superior more?
Loba
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March 28, 2008 at 10:21 am (All Blogs, All Personals)
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I wonder what it really takes for people to constantly excuse their behavior and rationalize their lack of ethics and morals. It must be exhausting to be like that.
How can people live with themselves high in webs of lies and deceit? Is it so much better to ruin another’s day, self worth or even life and then say “it’s just business”?
Are such people so low or maybe rather high on themselves to believe that it’s acceptable to stomp on ethics and hurt others, all for the sake of “success” and material gain?
Unless one is born with a lower intelligence or has an inability to mentally differentiate right from wrong, I’m not one to excuse such behavior as ignorance. My sympathy is spent on the ones who actually deserve it.
I can’t help but find such people disgusting to the core of their self-reduced beings and have no tolerance whatsoever for such attitude. Respectful people deserve respect and the rest deserve much controlled silence.
Loba
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March 16, 2008 at 11:26 pm (All Proverbs)
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“If you understand everything, you must be misinformed.”
“Fear is greater than the danger.”
“Only death will cure a fool.”
“The stake that sticks out gets hammered down.”
“There are even bugs that eat knotweed.”
“Even monkeys fall from trees.”
“Child of a frog is a frog.”
“One who chases after two hares won’t catch even one.”
“An apprentice near a temple will recite the scriptures untaught.”
“A single arrow is easily broken, but not ten in a bundle.”
“Darkness reigns at the foot of the lighthouse.”
“Forgiving the unrepentant is like drawing pictures on water.”
“Getting money is like digging with a needle. Spending it is like water soaking into the sand.”
“Virtue is not knowing but doing.”
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February 27, 2008 at 12:13 pm (All Blogs)
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As a teenager, I used to work at Ford’s Customer Assistance Centre. One of the best calls I ever had started with the caller swearing nonstop from the moment I picked up the phone.
“The dealership won’t cover the expenses, it’s still under warranty! My employee is stuck there. The truck is in the middle of some interstate highway. It isn’t working, the engine doesn’t start, the brakes are shot, the transmission is gone, the tires are deflated, etc.”
He practically mentioned anything that could have possibly gone wrong with the car. Confused, I asked him to explain what had happened or if his employee was involved in an accident.
He replied, “I don’t care if he was off-roading, drove into the woods, over tree trunks, and into a lake! It should be covered!”
Trying not laugh, I asked, “well sir, did he drive it into the woods into a lake?”
And he said, “that’s not the point!!!”
Within minutes I found out that not only was the dealership not going to cover the costs, they actually voided the client’s warranty. The car was in fact driven into a lake and everything had drowned in water!
Loba
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February 19, 2008 at 4:42 pm (All Blogs)
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In a land where protests take place for women’s “rights” to walk topless on streets, noone seems to protest about walking on the same streets without breaking their necks in February. It is astonishing to see how many sidewalks are covered with thick beautiful and smooth sheets of ice, with no grain of salt, day after day after day.
As long as the roads are clear for cars, all else seems to be secondary or actually even lower on the list of city’s priorities. Children walking home from school, mothers with baby carriages, the elderly with their walkers, and the rest of the people who just want to get home are at risk. Even when walking past expensive condominiums and Fortune 500 corporation sidewalks, odds are actually quite worse.
Yet we mock the citizens of our beloved south of the border neighbor who apparently sue themselves, their families, neighbors, dogs, local businesses and governments left and right. Maybe we should learn from them. Maybe then this would stop.
Loba
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February 7, 2008 at 9:49 pm (All Blogs, All Personals)
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Tapping into my childhood and how I’d spend my free time brings back countless memories.
I’d read my favorite books and fantasize whitewashing the fence with Tom Sawyer or buying the little doll for Cosette in Les Miserables or helping Oliver Twist out of his misery.
I’d paint senselessly. Half the time it was really just doodling but then there were the occasional masterpieces of birds, flowers and cartoon characters.
I’d play with our doves, canaries, lovebirds and African Grey parrot. I’d try to adopt little stray kittens and have baby birds sleep next to me at nighttime.
I’d watch Bollywood movies and Disney cartoons in languages I didn’t understand and sing along with them.
I’d run around the house and imagine that I was playing hide and seek with my imaginary older brother.
I’d collect new released books and wrap them in gift wrap paper so they wouldn’t get damaged and save them for the summers to read with my favorite cousin.
I’d unwrap my toys out of their boxes, play with them a bit and then put them back into their boxes so they wouldn’t collect any dust.
I’d take my little doll, which would cry when I’d turn her over, everywhere and have her be part of my regular activities.
I’d count my stamps and colorful stationary that I had collected over the years and reorganize them by country, color, theme or however I pleased on that day.
I’d sit by the window for hours and pray to have lots of rain, sunshine, snow or wind so schools would close and I could just sleep five minutes longer.
I’d stick as close to the wall on the top bunk of my bed in the mornings so my sister couldn’t reach me and wake me up for school.
I’d go to sleep early at nights so I could listen to my favorite radio station’s bedtime stories.
I’d play with my toys for hours quietly and would ask for french fries for dinner.
I’d walk up and down our little block and get some change to buy a popsicle or sunflower seeds.
I’d get all excited for my family’s Friday night outings, would dress up and wait impatiently for everyone else to get ready.
I’d watch our neighbor cook and sit with her for hours and knit scarves.
I’d have long chats with my grandmother about everything and anything and chew her ears out.
I’d imagine to be a teacher like my mom with a classroom of dolls or a producer like my dad with my own set of camera crew.
Although my childhood had quite a number of stressful moments, as a whole it was stress-free. Was it that I was shielded from hardships or maybe I just knew how to deal with stress? Maybe it was both.
Loba
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