Death and Beyond

It’s been quite a while since I blogged. In fact I have to think quite hard to remember those days when I felt the incredible desire to just write.

I guess I can excuse all this on death. When it creeps on a loved one, it takes a part of the souls of the ones left. Death, though inevitable is never really expected. You can prepare yourself all you want to handle it all gracefully but when it actually happens all plans shatter.

Life suddenly loses its colorful meaning and becomes bleak and mute. Everything redefines itself to a sorrowful and sad state full of deep pain and regrets never felt before.

There’s still so much I want to express about all this but now is not the time.

Loba

Brazilian Proverbs

“Love is blind, so you have to feel your way.”

“Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.”

“A timely “no” beats a hasty “yes.”"

“Between the beginning and the end there is always a middle.”

“A wise man learns at the fool’s expense.”

“God writes straight even on wavy lines.”

“An old man with a torn sleeve never dishonored anyone.”

“For every ailing foot, there is a slipper.”

“Haste is the mother of imperfection.”

“Never promise a poor person, and never owe a rich one.”

“One who does not look ahead remains behind.”

“Goodwill makes the road shorter.”

“The earth is not thirsty for the blood of the warriors but for the sweat of man’s labor.”

“The trees with most leaves will not necessarily produce juicy fruit.”

“Where blood has been shed the tree of forgiveness cannot grow.”

“He who knows nothing, doubts nothing.”

“You can only take out of a bag what was already in it.”

Azerbaijani Proverbs

“Beauty without virtue is a curse.”

“It’s not shameful not to know, but it’s shameful not to ask.”

“Make sure your blanket covers your feet.”

“One’s own simple bread is much better than someone else’s pilaf.”

“Never mind storms and snows for the sake of a friend.”

“Saying “halva-halva” won’t make your mouth sweet.”

“Until spring comes, nightingales do not sing.”

Mongolian Proverbs

“Greed keeps men forever poor, even the abundance of this world will not make them rich.”

“A cat likes to eat fresh fish but it will not go into the water.”

“It’s difficult to take a wolf cub without bringing in the whole pack.”

“Don’t look for bad things in the good that you do.”

“The winner has many friends, the loser has good friends.”

“Even foul water will quench fire.”

“The distance between heaven and earth is no greater than one thought.”

“He who wants to build high must dig deep.”

“One idiot can ask more questions than ten wise men can answer.”

“A donkey that carries me is worth more than a horse that kicks me.”

“Times are not always the same; the grass is not always green.”

“Once you have locked your door you are the emperor in your own domain.”

“Don’t undo your bootlaces until you have seen the river.”

“You can’t put two saddles on the same horse.”

“There are men who walk through the woods and see no trees.”

“A tiger wearing a bell will starve.”

To value another

Not everyone will or even knows how to value themselves let alone to value another, even if they seem to show value. We cannot expect to be valued unless we are humble in spirit, have a close connection to God, follow our faith with good will, love and respect our families and other fellow human beings and work towards the greater good. Only then can we hope and expect to meet people of the same caliber and God willing, progress in the positive direction.

However, God does work in mysterious ways and sometimes we’re blessed with people of a higher caliber so we can learn and work on progress and sometimes it’s the other way around and we need to help them up.

Loba

Failure to Reason

I met a woman recently who was convinced that her failing marriage was entirely the fault of the woman that her ex-husband cheated with and remarried. She wished and prayed daily for nothing more than an eternal life of much damnation for this woman.

I don’t believe she’s succeeded.

I tried with much effort to feel her pain and empathize. I tried to make her see some reason and focus on her growing children and their future. I tried to convince her to save her prayers for useful matter and turn her devotion back to God. I tried to ask her to leave her ex-husband and this woman in God’s capable hands and trust God’s will.

I don’t believe I succeeded.

Loba

Life and Habits

I have come to see how quickly one can change. How quickly evil can seep into people. It’s all a matter of habit. I strongly believe that.

I have always been fond of saying how we are all creatures of habit and I firmly believe it to this day. Habits, good or bad, define us. They define our quality of life, character, ethics and foundation of beliefs.

Unfortunately many bad actions, though they may seem insignificant at the time, if repeated will very likely develop into long-term habits. Such habits can include drinking, smoking, using violence, gossiping, judging, embracing sheer arrogance or spreading ignorance at worst.

I feel truly blessed to be able to at least detect this and to try and sometimes be able to stop the growth of such mold wherever possible. I just hope others do too.

Loba

Burma cyclone death toll

“No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.” – Aesop

Burma Cyclone“The official death toll from Burma’s killer cyclone has nearly doubled to 78,000 as aid workers hampered by the country’s un-cooperative military regime struggled to get basic data about the needs of up to 2.5 million desperate survivors.

Burma state television said the official death count from the May 3 cyclone was 77,738, with another 55,917 missing. The Red Cross warned that the lack of clean water may increase the number of deaths.” – Press Association

Let’s put Humanity First! Let’s not buy that nice dress or shoes this weekend and donate at least $20 that could essentially save lives. There will always be nice dresses and shoes in stores but lives cannot be reversed!

Remember that WE ARE BLESSED! We are blessed to have a home, have shelter, food, money, access to technology, health care. We are blessed to be able to see, write, type, read, listen and not be afraid for our lives and the lives of our loved ones.

If situation was reversed, we’d plead for help and people would step up from all over the world to help. We have to do the same. We are all of one kind. We laugh, and cry, and are as vulnerable if put in the same conditions. We deserve to have our basic necessities of life met.

Please help Humanity First help those in great need. Every dollar counts. Every dollar always counts!

Loba

“Life is short. Be swift to love! Make haste to be kind!” – Henri Amiel

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